David,
Been watching your post with interest, as we are 30 somethings sailing in December on the Volendam. After watching this and a couple of other boards for several months now, it seems very few people who post have actually sailed the Volendam recently. (There are some, but not many).Yet our early December sailing seems to be selling well (based on the prices rising over the last month)
My conclusion is that many who sail her are not message board/internet savvy type people, which leads me to believe that the average age will in fact be much older than some other cruise choices. Add in the comments of the people who replied to you so far, and I think you get the picture. As for us, since we are not big party people, it suits just fine. We also have the advantage of traveling with two friends our age, who will be excellent late night company if everyone else is already sleeping!
With 1400 people on board, I doubt you would be the only one under 50, but even if you are, I have to agree with Cruzman...some of the biggest 'partiers' I know are well into their 50's and beyond.
Please post a review when you get back, I am very interested about how your experience goes! Thanks.
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