My wife and i are going on the Allure May 6 2012, for our first cruise and really first vacation ever. My question on gratuities is ----better to pay them in advance or the last night? Or a mix of both with above average service being rewarded in addition to the prepaid amount?
You can prepay the standard tips as part of your final payment for your cruise (which must be done if you choose My Time Dining) or make arrangements to do so once on board. The daily amount is $11.00 for your cabin attendant, head waiter, waiter and assistant waiter. Tipping is, IMHO, a rather personal thing, some people like to tip at the beginning or near the beginning and again later in the cruise, others prefer to tip the last day and still others don't tip at all.
I always sign up for the standard tips and add onto that amount as the service deserves. For example, about mid-way through a cruise I will tip the bartenders/waiters and will tip them again at the end of the cruise. The exception is the waiters in the pool area whom I tip a dollar or two per order, mostly b/c I rarely have the same waiter more than once or twice. I distribute the tip coupons provided by RCL, along with additional cash, on the second to the last night of the cruise because I like to say a personal thank you to the waiters in the main dining room and my cabin attendant and the last day/night always seems too busy. I tip $2 per room service call and 15% of the cost of spa treatments (on top of the tip they automatically add).
Some folks have suggested I "over tip" but I believe in taking care of the people who take care of me. Having said that, I have, on one occasion, only tipped the standard amount for my cabin attendant b/c the service was far below par (the cabin wasn't clean when I boarded, past passengers trash left in the drawers/closet, and I had to hunt him down for toilet paper, among other things).
Now for a little story that you may find interesting. On my first cruise I was confused about the appropriate amounts to tip bartenders but I ball parked it and later found out that it was on the low side. However, I was so impressed by one bartender in particular I wrote a letter to the cruise line saying how great he was. My next cruise almost a year later this same bartender was on the ship and ran up to me saying, "Thank You! I saw your letter!" He had won employee of the year and the cruise line gave him a copy of my letter and said "this is what we like to hear." He was awarded a significant cash bonus. So, if you receive great service be sure and mark it on the comment cards and/or send a letter giving the name of the crew member.
Enjoy your first cruise. I'm sure it will lead to many more.