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It doesn't "ruin " my vacation when I see someone not dressed up. Get real. If that's enough to stop someone form cruising, then stop. As my mom used to say " there are starving children in Africa so get over yourself" . . My husband and I dress up, we enjoy it, others don't enjoy it so they don't dress up. I 'm really sick of the " your being selfish and rude" line being used because people are choosing to enjoy their holiday differently than you would choose to . Other people are not window dressing for your " cruise fantasy". Leave people alone!!! Wash your hands and tuck in your shirt and you can come sit right down beside me and my hubby and we don't care what you got on as long as you are a kind and caring person. That is all that really matters! Oh yeah it does help if you don't pick your teeth with your knife lol!!