:sunny:Good Morning gang,First AM in a long time I am taking time for ME..

got up later, as Mark had Nascar on last noc, and with all the delays it ended at almost 2AM!!!
got laundry churning, sheets out in a few, bed done, and Mark vacuumed the entire house while I did the bathrooms..
his lungs are junky, and he's coughing fits..but much better...we were supposed to go home, but with Mark trying to go from a bad cold to Bronchitis, and my folks NOT needing to get exposed, at 70 & 77 they are in very good health for the most part..but still and all..
my parents 18 year old Patriarch Red Deer Giant- Braveheart passed a few days ago, and my sister's Coast Guard party function at the Farm went well, it was kept quiet till after the party..I feel bad for them, they'll probably be wanting a new one ; we shall see. they still have well over 30 Girl's, and the 10,000 blueberry plants..less work but that's never been the point...they just love the farm itself, it's my Father's reprieve from the craziness of the Engineering firm..oh well..
got almost all of my preserve's and pickles set, just a chance to do blueberry when we get home to Maine in a few weeks.
DD oldest twin Jenny and her Fiance picked a date..Labor Day next year..and DD Julia and her Ben are due in December with a Baby Girl..so inasmuch as I have 2 cruises in the next 4 months, and a wedding, and another grand, we have been flat out...
my hours have peaked at 110 plus every 2 weeks for about 2 months again.and I am not due for a decrease till we leave next month.with cruises only 7 weeks apart and we *ARE* going!!..

.we shall see. I am on weekends only every 3rd..but I may have to get grumpy and do every third Saturday 7A-7P, and then every 4th weekend,after we get back in November..I'm grinding down faster....
Mark is at full tilt-they are moving the entire building and contents to a new lab 2 miles away, and it's year end for paving for the state..um needless to say-he's nuts..well I have DD Jenny bringing our borrowed truck back, she and her Matthew close on their first house in 2 weeks..so they have to move from their rental to the new one..
last month finally got to DS Stephen and his fiance's "new" ( a year ago..

) house 2 1/2 hours away in NY State.

.one of the reasons I got such a bee in my bonnet after Aruba and after getting back from Mary Ann's funeral about weekends and time off..was that we had such a feeling that we were giving up too much of our families time by the hours.. so it's been evolving I get weekdays and less weekends, now it also is 12-16 hour days;but since I am the 2nd most Senior nurse for longevity in the entire facility at almost 8 years.. and only per diem -as scheduled... but at least I am meeting goals of more hands on kids/grands/parents for the both of us!!!:whistle:
...it all works for the family, vacations, and still paying the bills.....but as I approach 53 years old, I know the grind wears faster for sure ..so my stand of being steadfast for MY choice-well I sure hold to it!!!
well the sun is shining, I have to get trucking..take care all.prayers for all those in need....hugs Joanne