My father was a workaholic. We finally got him on a cruise to Bermuda when a family member was getting amrried there. Since we are from Philadelphia, the CRown Dynasty traveled from home to Bermuda for a weekend stay. Afraid that dad would not like it, we watched him closely and the satff made sure he was comfy. He sat and watched the bands play while drinking his beer. He loved it. So much, in fact, that when we got home he told me to book another cruise ASAP.
I found Carnival. I looked into all the ships and found the Sensation. It sounded nice, had excellent ports of call, ect. On March 11, 2001 we got on a plane and went to Tampa for the dream vacaation with dad. It was me, my mother and my then 9 year old daughter. He sat and watched the bands, drank his beer, ate staek until he was tired, comedy shows, the whole nine. We arrived back home on March 18, 2001 talking about the Disney cruise we would take him on.
Dad died the very next night 3-19-01 of heart failure.
I say this to say that this was the best vacation of all because we got to spend time with him on his "last days".
Have fun!!