Hi Wes,
Can't believe nobody has replied to your request yet....I was a 1st timer on Star 7/27/03 sailing. I am in my late forties with husband and younger children. I actually got to go on a vacation WITHOUT them. I LOVED it. I was like a kid running up and down the wide stairways. Breakfast every morning in the Versailles dining room. Maria La Portia from Romania was wonderful to me. Also Norman from Jamacia. Staff may rotate dining rooms, though. Beware the BINGO monster. You get sucked in and you'll spend hundreds if you go everyday and also buy those "Crack-its" (like Lotto scratchers). The entertainment at bingo was great, though, with the cruise director staff, they're very funny. Avoid the trinket sales initially on Fanning Island. Buy as you're leaving, the prices will be lower and you can haggle. The $10 I spent on bike rental was well worth it. I didn't go far, but I got some great pictures while tooling around in my swimsuit. Do Not eat anything sweet (fruit OK) on Fanning because when you return to the ship the Chocohalic buffet will be under way. Change quickly (no bathing attire allowed) and pile it up. Shows were wonderful, Comedian David Naster gets you laughing til you cry, and don't begrudge the "upcharge" for certain resturants. You can't eat at Benihana for $10 (reserve Tepanyaki room early, only seats 12 at the grill). If you like soda buy the card. Otherwise iced tea, coffee, & juice are included. Get to the craft offering early (different types of lei's). If you arrive "on-time" or alittle late supplies are gone (orchids, kukui nuts, ribbon). If you're not saavy about getting better sightseeing tours OFF the boat, try to take some the ship offers. I stuck with my group and ended up disappointed because once off the ship nobody would make up their minds. Oh, I brought 4 large bottles of Aqua-fina bottled water on board with me. With ice provided In room twice daily, it was very refreshing. Also, take a box of ziplock baggies for storing extra chocolate buffet items or ferreting a sandwich off on a day-trip (a no-no, but so what?). If you like alcoholic drinks, you will pay, but there are occasional "free" offerings of potions in different places on board. Don't believe the negative reviews. I could go on forever......have fun!